This is a really good article, but this is a questionable way to end it. Yes, you can do a breakup wrong. Stalking, slandering, false accusations, etc. There are any number of destructive, unhealthy ways to do a breakup wrong, the most overt example being some form of violence. Sleeping with other people is often a really bad idea, too, unless you want to stay in the same cycle that got you into relationship troubles in the first place. I’m all for empowerment, but there are reasonable and common sense limits to anything.