Hello. As to your question, no you’re not wrong but worrying is pointless and it’s kinda none of your business what other adults decide to do. Having said that, what struck me most in this article was the evidence of pathology cloaked in the guise of virtuosity. As just one example, the text I highlighted. I can’t really tell what your position on it is, but what you’re describing is stubbornness and stubbornness is NOT a virtue. And honestly, it’s kinda dumb too when you’re talking about the welfare of a child. It is by no means virtuous to be a person who won’t change their mind. That’s the kind of character trait that had people still defending Trump after his supporters tried to burn down the capitol.

I know lots of readers read this and were inspired. I was more concerned than inspired, so yeah, maybe you’re right to worry. For all it’s nobility, adoption is rife with serious consequences, and rigid thinking on that matter is ill advised.