A well-written article full of preposterous and unsupported assertions. For example, people (not just men) with NPD do not plan their behaviors. They are utterly devoid of self-awareness. They see the world through their own narrow lens, and I’m sure they believe that what they are doing is both correct and just, just like the author believes tgis article is correct and just. That’s what articles like this one always get wrong — narcissists don’t plan. They just are.
And this is certainly not a disorder specific to men. Women tend to be diagnosed as borderline, but they present in incredibly similar ways. I’d caution anyone to avoid clinical terminology without the requisite training and understanding.